Fiancee wants to get married right away but she has debt. What should I do?
She also wants to have a baby. She tells me she will be responsable and get her debt paid off first but I get the feeling she wouldn’t mind having the baby and quit working. I’m worried her problems will become mine once we are married. The obvious answer is to talk about it. This is a very sensitive subject for her and I and usually ends with raised voices and unresolved issues. I make good money and could afford to pay her debt but I know it would make me resentful. She is in a consolidation program that will take another 3 years to complete.