Am I being too stubborn?

Ok, so we found the house, THE ONE! I see us there, and when I see something, I usually will do everything in my power to make it happen, because I feel it’s meant to be.

Well this house is a foreclosure and a pain in the ass one at that. The thing is the listing is through Countrywide. We have already been approved through Wells Fargo. In order to put an offer in for a Countrywide property, you have to be pre-approved with Countrywide. Whether or not you use them, you still have to be pre-approved with Countrywide. Stupid! But it is their rule. So, anywho…….we got denied. Our issue is Guy’s student loans. They are not showing on his credit report as being paid, even though he has been paying $ 140 a month now for 6 months. So I emailed the guy back from Countrywide asking what we can do next and told him I am not ready to give up. So, he sent me an email and asked for all the student loan information and all of our recent paychecks and w2’s, so I sent it to him and they are gonna re-submit the information and try to get a pre-approval.


But now I talked with the realtor and she thinks it’s gonna be too much of a hassle because of this plus repairs (broken window, recarpeting of one room, a kitchen sink), and we should give up. Problem is, I am not giving up. Call me stubborn, but this is the house I want, and I am gonna do everything in my power to get it. Now I am kinda pissed off at our realtor because instead of standing by our sides, I feel like she is trying to take the easy way out and I don’t like it.

If we do all this and get denied……..great. Then at least I know we did everything we could do, and it just wasn’t meant to be. But I think that it IS meant to be, and I would hate to just give up on something I want….actually I am not gonna give up on something I want.

Am I being unreasonable? I need an honest opinion on this.

Actually she hasn’t proceded with anything yet. Last she said was, “let me call you right back”, and I still haven’t heard back from her.

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